SHOUHAR KE SATH ZINDGI BASAR KARNE KA TARIKA

AURAT KI HAQEEQAT 

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SHOUHAR KE SATH ZINDGI BASAR KARNE KA TARIKA 

(10) Aurat ko agar sasural me koi taqleef ho ya koi baat nagawaar guzre to aurat ko laazim hai ki hargiz hargiz mayke me aakar chugli naa khaye, kyo ki sasuraal ki chhoti chhoti si baato ki shikayat mayke me aakar maa baap se karni ye bahut hi buri baat hai.

Sasuraal walo ki aurat k is harkat se behadd taqleef pahuchti hai. 

Yaha tak ki dono gharo me bigaad or ladai-jhagde shuru ho jate hain.
Jis ka anjaam ye hota hai ki aurat shauhar ki nazro me bhi qaabil e nafrat ho jaati hai aur fir miya-biwi ki zindagi ladai jhagdo se jahannam ka namoona ban jati hai.

(11)Aurat ko chahye ki jaha tak ho sake apne badan aur kapdo ki safayi-suthrayi ka khayaal rakhe.

Maili kuchaili aur fuhar na bani rahe, balki apne shauhar ki marzi aur mijaaz k mutabiq banaw singaar bhi karti rahe.
Kam se kam hath paaon me mehandi, kanghi, choti, surme, kaajal wagair ka ehteraam karti rahe.

Baal bikhre aur maile kuchaile, chudail bani na firey ki aurat ka fuhadpana aam taur par shauharo ki nafrat ka sabab hua karta hai.
Khuda na kare ki shauhar aurat k fuhadpan ki wajah se nafrat karne lage Aur dusri aurato ki taraf taank-jhaank shuru kar de toh fir aurat ki zindahi tabah o barbaad ho jayegi fir usko umar bhar rone dhone aur sar peetne k siwa koi chara-kaar nahi reh jaayega.

(12).Aurat Ke Liye Yah Baat Bhi Khas Taur Par Kabile Lihaaz Hai Ki Jab Tak Shouhar Aur Saas Aur Sasur Wagairah Na Kha Pee Le Khud Na Khae. Balki Sab Ko Khila Pila Kar Sabse Aakhir Me Khae. Aurat Ki Iss Ada Se Shouhar Aur Uske Sab Ghar Walo Ke Dil Me Aurat Ki Kadr Wa Manzilat Aur Muhabbat Badh Jayegi....

(13). Aurat Ko Chahiye Ki Sasuraal Me Jakar Apne Maika Walo Ki Bahut Zyada Tareef Aur Badayi Na Byaan Karti Rahe Kyuki Isse Sasuraal Walo Ko Yah Khyaal Ho Sakta Hai Ki Hamari Bahu Hum Logo Ko Bekadar Samjhti Hai Aur Hamare Ghar Walo Aur Ghar Ke Mahol Ki Tauheen Karti Hai.

Isliye Sasuraal Wale Bhadak Kar Bahu Ki Bekadri Aur Use me Nafrat Karne Lagte Hai...

(14) Ghar k andar saas, nanadein ya jethani, dewraani ya koi dusri do auratein aapas me chupke chupke baatein kar rahi ho to aurat ko chahiye k unke kareeb na jaayein aur ye just'ju kare ki wo aapas me kya baatein kar rahi hai.?
Aur bina wajah ye bad-gumani bhi na kare ki kuch mere hi mutta'alliq baatein kar rahi hongi ki isse khwah -m-khwah dil me ek dusre ki taraf se keena paida ho jata hai.

Jo bahut bada gunah hone k sath sath bade bade fasaad hone ka sabab ban jata hai...

(15) Aurat ko ye bhi chahiye ki sasuraal me agar saas nanado'n ko koi kaam karte dekhe to jhatt-patt uth kar khud bhi wo kaam karne lage, isse saas aur nanado k dil me ye asar paida hoga ki wo aurat ko apna ghamgusaar aur rafeeqe kaar balki apna madadgaar samajhne lagengi.
Jisse khud ba khud saas nanado'n ke dil me ek khaas kism ki mohabbat paida ho jayegi.
Khususan saas, sasur or nanado ki bimaari ke waqt aurat ko badh chadh kar khidmat or teemadari me hissa lena chahiye ki aisi baato se saas, sasur nanado'n balki shauhar ke dil me aurat ki taraf se jazba-e-mohabbat paida ho jane lagti hai.

AUR AURAT KI NEQ NAAMI ME CHAR HAND LAG JATE HAIN.

(16).Aurat Ke Farayiz Me Yah Bhi Hai Ki Agar Shouhar Gareeb Ho Aur Gharelu Kaam Kaaj Ke Liye Naukrani Rakhne Ki Takat Na Ho To Apne Ghar Ka Gharelu Kaam Kaaj Khud Kar Liya Kare. Isme Hargiz Hargiz Aurat Ki Koi Zillat Hai Na Sharm. 


BUKHARI SHAREEF Ki Bahut Si Rivayto Se Pata Chalta Hai Ki Khud Rasool Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم Ki Mukaddas Sahebzadi Hazrat Fatima Radiallahu Anha Ka Bhi Yahi Mamool Tha Ki Wah Apne Ghar Ka Saara Kaam Kaaj Khud Apne Haatho Se Kiya Karti Thi. Kuye Se Pani Bhar Kar Aur Apni Mukaddas Peeth Par Mashak Laad Kar Paani Laaya Karti Thi. Khud Hi Chakki Chala Kar Aata Bhi Pees Leti Thi. Isi Wajah Se Unke Mubarak Haatho Me Kbhi Kbhi Chhale Pad Jate The.
Isi Tarah Ameer-Ul- Momineen Hazrat Abu Bakar Siddiq Radiallahu Anhu Ki Sahebzadi Hazrat Asma Radiallahu Anha Ke Mutallik Bhi Rivayat Hai Ki Wah Apne Gareeb Shouhar Hazrat Zubair Radiallahu Anhu Ke Yha Apne Ghar Ka Saara Kaam Kaaj Apne Haatho Se Kar Liya Karti Thi. Yha Tak Ki oont Ko Khilane Ke Liye Baago Se Khajoor Ki Guthliya Chun-Chun Kar Apne Sar Par Laati Thi Aur Ghode Ke Liye Ghaas Chara Bhi Laati Thi Aur Ghode Ki Malish Bhi Karti Thi

Ref ( Jannati Zevar  Page No: 30,31,32 )

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