AURAT KI HAQEEQAT

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SHOUHAT KE SATH ZINDGI BASAR KARNE KA TARIKA

(5) Aurat Ko Lazim Hai Ki Apne Shouhar Ki Surat Wa Seerat Par Na Taana Maare Na Kbhi Shouhar Ki Tahkeer Aur Uski Nashukri Kare. Aur Hargiz Hargiz Kabhi bhul Kar Bhi Iss Kism Ki Jali Kati Boliya Na Bole Ki Haye Allah! Mai Kbhi Iss Ghar Me Sukhi Nahi Rahi. Haye Haye! Meri To Saari Umar Musibat Hi Me Aakr Kati. Iss Ujde Ghar Me Kya Dekha Maine. Mere Maa Baap Ne Mujhe Bhaad Me Jhok Diya Ki Mujhe Iss Ghar Me Byaah Diya. Mujh Nigodi Ko Iss Ghar Me Kbhi Araam Naseeb Nahi Hua. Haye! Mai Kis Fakkad Aur Daliddar Se Byaahi Gayi. Iss Ghar Me To Hamesha Ullu Hi Bolta Raha. Iss Kism Ke Taano Aur Kosno Se Shouhar Ka Dil Shikni Yakeeni Taur Par Hogi Jo Miyaa BiWI Ke Nazuk Tallukat Ki Gardan Par Chhuri Fer Dene Ke Barabar Hai. Zahir Hai Ki Shouhar Iss Kism Ke Taano Aur Kosno Ko Sun Sun Kar Aurat Se Bezar Ho Jayega. Aur Mohabbat Ki Jagah Nafrat Wa Adawat Ka Ek Aisa Khatarnaak Tufaan Uth Khada Hoga Ki Miyaa Bivi Ke Khushgwar Tallukat Ki Naav Doob Jayegi Jis Par Tamaam Upar Pachtana Pdega. Magar Afsos Ki Aurato Ki Yah Adat Balki Fitrat Ban Gayi Hai Ki Wah Shouharo Ko Taane Deti Aur Kosti Hi Rehti Hai. Aur Apni Duniya Wa Aakhirat Ko Tabah Wa Barbad Karti Rehti Hai.

Hadees Shareef Me Hai Ki

RASOOLULLAH ﷺ Ne Farmaya Ki Maine Jahannum Me Aurton Ko Bakasrat Dekha. Yah Sun Kar Sahaba Kiraam Ne Pucha Ki Ya Rasool Allah! Iski Kya Wajah Hai Ki Aurate Bakasrat Jahannam Me Nazar Aayi,

Tou Apne Farmaya Ki Auraton Me Do Buri Khaslato Ki Wajah Se. Ek To Yah Ki Aurate Dusro Par Bahut Zada La'an Ta'an Karti Rehti Hai. Dusri Yah Ki Aurte Apne Shouharo Ki Nashukri Karti Rehti Hai. Chunanche Tum Umar Bhar Un Aurto Ke Sath Accha Sulook Karte Raho Lekin Agar Kbhi Ek Zara Si Kami Tumhri Taraf Se Dekh Lengi To Yahi Kahengi Ki Maine Kbhi Tum Se Bhalayi Dekhi Hi Nahi...

Ref [ Bukhari sharif J 1 Safah 9 ]

(6) Biwi ko Lazim Hai Ki Hamesha Uthte Baithte, Baat Chit Mein Har Halat Mein Shauhar Ke Saamne Ba Adab Rahe Aur Uske Azaaz Wa Ikraam Ka Khayal Rakhe!

Shauhar Jab Kabhi Bhi Bahar Se Ghar Mein Aaye Toh Aurat Ko Chahiye Ki Sab Kaam Ko Chhod Kar Uth Khadi Ho Aur Shauhar Ki Taraf Mutwaj'jeh Ho Jaye Uski Mizaaz Pursi Kare Aur Foran Hi Uske Aaram Wa Rahat Ka Intezaam Kar De Aur Uske Saath Dil Juie Ki Baatein Kare!

Aur Hargiz Hargiz Aesi Koi Baat Na Suna'ai Na Koi Aisa Sawaal Kare Jis Se Shauhar Ka Dil Dukhe...

(7) Agar Shauhar Ko Aurat ki Kisi Baat Par Gussa Aajaye Toh Aurat Ko Lazim Hai Ki Us Waqt Khamosh Ho Jaye Aur Us Waqt Hargiz Koi Aesi Baat Na Bole Jisse Shauhar Ka Gussa Aur Ziyada Bad Jaye!

Aur Agar Aurat Ki Taraf Se Koi Kasoor Ho Jaye Aur Shauhar Gusse Main Bhar Kar Aurat Ko Bura Bhala Keh De Aur Naraaz Ho Jaye Toh Aurat Ko Chahiye Ki Khud Rooth Kar Aur Gaal Fhula Kar Na Baith Jaye Balki Aurat Ko Lazim Hai Ki Foran Hi Azizi Aur Khushamad Karke Shauhar Se Maafi Maange Aur Haath Jod Kar, Pa'on Pakad Kar, Jis Tarha Wo Maan Le Use Mana Le! Agar Aurat Ka Koi Kasoor Na Ho Balki Shauhar Hi Ka Kasoor Ho Jab Bhi Aurat Ko Tan Kar Aur Mooh Bigaad Kar Baithe Rehna Nahi Chahiye! Balki Shauhar Ke Saamne Aazizi Wa Inkesaari Zaahir Karke Shauhar Ko Khush Kar Lena Chahiye, Kyun ki Shauhar Ka Haq Bahot Bada Hai! Uska Martaba Bahot Buland Hai! Apne Shauhar Se Maafi Talaafi Karane Mein Aurat Ki Koi Zillat Nahi Hai Balki Yeh Aurat Ke Liye Izzat Aur Fakar Ki Baat Hai Ki Woh Maafi Maang Kar Apne Shauhar Ko Raazi Kar Le!...

Ref [ Jannati Zevar Page 27.28 ]

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